codependency dependent behavior
Sexual Addiction Behavior Types
Sex addiction comes in many forms and types. Anything from the lone internet user spends 5 hours a night looking at the pornography, the patron of a prostitute, the exhibitionist (man in the raincoat), the voyeur and others. The following information is based on the work Patick Carnes.
Sexual Addiction Behavior Types
1. Sex Fantasy – sexually charged fantasies, relationships and situations
• "Sex in the head" – The excitement of sex depends on the possibility
• Fantasy is preferred over sex
• The fantasies can be all-consuming
• Sex is rarely the target (unless it is necessary to control an outcome)
2. Seductive roles – the seduction of sex partners
• Being sexually without being honest about the intentions
• Arousal is based on the conquest
• Arousal decreases after initial contact
• Seduction is equal to power and control
• Can the results in multiple relationships, issues and / or relationships of
3. Anonymous sex – high-risk sex with strangers
• Arousal involves the seduction or no cost and is immediate
• In cruise, one night, restrooms, peep shows, ads on Craigslist, etc.
• There is no emotional connection
4. Paying for sex – The purchase of sexual services
• The excitation connected to the payment of sex
• Over time, the excitement is connected to money itself
• Prostitution, phone sex, sexual massage
5. A sex change – The sale or barter sexual power
• Arousal is based on gaining control of others using sex as leverage
• Receiving money or drugs for sex
* Make explicit movies / videos, stripping, prostitution, and / or drugs for sex
6. Sex voyeur – Level Visual Alert
• The use of visual stimulation escape in an obsessive trance
• Subject searching or "spy" for bonus sexual
• The use of pornographic photos, magazines, computers and / or videos to get a point
7. Sex exhibitionist – Attracting attention the body or sexual body parts
• Sexual arousal is derived from the reaction of the viewer, in the case of shock or interest
• Exposure of himself for sexual gratification and / or power
• Exposing oneself in public places, at home, in a car
• Wear designed to highlight and stimulate
8. Intrusive Sex – Boundary violations undiscovered
• "Stealing sex" without the possibility of catch
• sexually touch people in crowds
• Amazing unsuspecting individuals with sexual comments, jokes, and / or comments
9. Change Pain – Being humiliated or injured as a part of sexual arousal
• Excited by the sadistic activities, wounding or other sexually degrading
• or both
* Sexual slavery or "S & M" (sadomasochism)
10. Sex Object – masturbation with objects
• Transvestism
• Uncontrolled use of masturbatory objects: dolls inflatable latex vaginas, dildos
• fetish
11. Sexual exploitation – The exploitation of vulnerable
• The patterns of arousal are based on the target "types" of vulnerability
• Force, intimidation or manipulation can be used
• 30% of men and 14% of female addicts have had sex with minors
• Pedophiles are not necessarily sex addicts
• Sex addicts can be pedophiles
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