enabler codependency

Are there different types of co-dependency?

I definitely feel I am a facilitator in so far as helping people keep their addictions, but I was a fool for partners who have had little love grow. I have a desire to teach and to heal their wounded souls.

That's one way because they depend codepency in the absence of the other person 'for something to meet your needs. For my part, they do not think that ALL are automatically unhealthy codependent relationship. If you happy with the person, and are happy with you … and both are getting something from the relationship, I do not see it as something negative. However, if there comes a point where a person needs more and more … or "donor" becomes unhappy with the time not given anything in return … then it is unhealthy. Read the text of your question, but …. makes me wonder why you think you're a "fool" for these people … Which leads me to believe that not totally content with taking this position in the relationship all the time.

Codependent Enabler

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